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Know how to set boundaries with siblings

Dr. Mozibur by Dr. Mozibur
August 20, 2022 - Updated on August 24, 2022
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It is very normal in childhood for siblings to cross boundaries, fight and push each other. But once siblings cross the threshold of adulthood, crossing boundaries can have different consequences. Some older siblings may repeatedly ask their brothers or sisters for money, request more time and attention, or invade their privacy. That’s why it’s important to set some boundaries in any relationship. These boundaries will save you unnecessary stress and strain on the relationship. Here are some steps (How to Set Boundaries with Siblings) that will help you set boundaries in sibling relationships.

If your siblings are constantly behaving in a way that makes you uncomfortable, it is extremely important to communicate your problem and set boundaries for yourself in order to develop and maintain a good relationship.

Step 1:

Write about the problem before you talk to your sibling. Start a general investigation to find out the cause of your problem to find out what your sibling is doing that is bothering you and why you feel that way. Then choose a solution that is simple and convenient for you. Focusing on positive solutions instead of negative feelings will be the first step in maintaining the health of your relationship.

pata karen ki samasya ki vajah kya hai
Find out what is causing the problem. Image: Shutterstock.

Step-2:

Determine a good time and place to talk to your siblings. It should be a pleasant meeting for both of you. Consider meeting at a coffee shop or going for a walk in the park so that your conversation is simple and neither of you feel trapped. Setting boundaries will likely be awkward at first, so make sure the setting gives you both some space to process the conversation.

Step-3:

Plan what you want to say. Remind yourself to stay calm and recognize that your sibling has good intentions. If you two cared about each other, he probably didn’t mean to hurt you. Instead of starting your request with something bad or negative about his behavior, start with something good or positive about your relationship.

Step-4:

Make your boundaries clear, tailor them to your needs rather than your siblings’ behavior. Present a clear solution that might work for both of you. Your sibling’s feelings may be hurt at first, but remember that if you both value the relationship, an honest conversation will strengthen your bond in the long run.

Positive hokar cheezo ko samajhne ki koshish karen
Try to understand things by being positive. Image: Shutterstock

Ask your sibling what they think of the solution you presented. Remember to listen to your siblings and consider their views.

Step-5:

It may take some time for your siblings to discuss the new rules you propose for their relationship. When your sibling says or does something that makes you feel good, let them know. But if your sibling crosses the line again, calmly remind her that the things she’s doing hurt you and ask her to stop there. Over time, setting boundaries in an adult way will lead to more positive behavior for both you and your siblings.

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