Many parents complain that their child has a habit of violence. He occasionally uses the word square. We should also be ashamed of this habit among people. In fact, parents do not even know how and from where this habit appeared in their child. We should know that every child’s habit is learned from its environment. If there is a habit of misbehaving parents or any family member, children will also follow this habit. Sometimes he learns this habit from a friend, a classmate. He thinks abuse is fashionable. Because of this there is anger among the people. Parents will also appreciate this new habit. He insults his younger brothers and sisters or relatives to insult him.
Lovingly explaining or correcting about not abusing
He is completely unaware that abuse is not considered good in our society. This is a bad habit. Every bad habit of a child can be explained or corrected with love rather than by beating and scolding. Dr. Pallavi Rao Chaturvedi, renowned parenting coach and founder of Get Set Parent with Pallavi, shares some tips in her Instagram post. Through these you can get rid of the bad habit of misbehaving your child or using dirty words forever.
Here are 4 tips from parenting coach Dr. Pallavi Rao Chaturvedi (tips for parents to break the habit of swearing in children)
Pallavi says that the first time you hear the word square from the mouth of children, your anger goes to the seventh heaven. But here you have to act wisely. Instead of scolding or hitting them, explain them lovingly. With the help of these tips, you can put an end to this bad habit of children forever.
1 Abusing or using profanity is not appropriate for any place
Try to explain to the child that violence is not acceptable anywhere. If he uses the word square over and over again at home, he will keep this habit after going to school. This would be against school discipline. Tell him that his school teacher will never take this habit well. Moreover, his classmates and peers are all annoyed by this habit of his. Therefore, he should always give up this bad habit.
2 Priority of family values
Try to explain to the child that every family has certain values. According to family values, abuse or use of dirty words is never considered good. Abuse is a sign of a person’s personality. With this, your personality will also be discussed in front of everyone for a week.
3 Violence hurts people
Not everyone likes to be bullied or bullied. Some people suffer from this so much that they don’t even like to talk to the abused child or elder.
Your intention will never be to harm anyone. If you don’t want anyone to be hurt by your words, stop abusing them today.
4 There are also alternative words for square words or abuse
Try to explain to the child that there are alternative words for square words or even insults. There are many words like oh my gosh that you can replace my closed word with. Accepting them can be difficult at first. But it doesn’t take long to adopt good habits.
In the end
Parents are the greatest role models for children. Children only follow their own habits, behavior. If you also have a habit of abusing or saying square words during conversation, then be careful.
Your child will follow you. Before rejecting something, be sure to check yourself whether you also have this dirty habit or not. If so, correct yourself before rejecting the child.